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Love is All You Need? full length movie
Apr 28th, 2013 by

All You Need Is Love? highlights a teen living in a world that exists in opposition to the one we live in now.

In this short, the terms “gay” and “straight” and the conceptions and cultural stigmas attached to them are completely reversed. What makes this video so powerful is its inclusion of family and community, showing that intolerance can fester in any number of places. Honest performances and a beautiful message, this short film is one not to miss.

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Poor Parenting Linked to Increase in Risk of Bullying
Apr 28th, 2013 by

Source: http://psychcentral.com/news/2013/04/27/poor-parenting-linked-to-increase-in-risk-of-bullying/54214.html

Poor Parenting Linked to Increase in Risk of Bullying

By Associate News Editor
Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on April 27, 2013

Children who are exposed to poor parenting, whether it’s abuse, neglect or overprotection, are more likely to experience childhood bullying, according to new research.

A meta-analysis of 70 studies of more than 200,000 children by researchers at the University of Warwick found the effects of poor parenting were stronger for children who are both a victim and perpetrator of bullying — known as bully-victims — than children who were solely victims.

The researchers found that negative or harsh parenting was linked to a moderate increase in the risk of being a bully-victim and a small increase in the risk of being a victim of bullying. In contrast, warm but firm parenting reduced the risk of being bullied, according to the study.

The study’s authors, psychologists Drs. Dieter Wolke, Suzet Lereya and Muthanna Samara, said the results show that anti-bullying intervention programs should extend beyond the schools, with a focus on positive parenting.

“The long shadow of bullying falls well beyond the school playground — it has lasting and profound effects into adulthood,” Wolke said. “We know that victims and bully-victims are more likely to develop physical health problems, suffer from anxiety and depression and are also at increased risk of self-harm and suicide.”

For the study, researchers categorized behaviors such as abuse, neglect, maladaptive parenting and over-protection as negative parenting behavior.

It also categorized authoritative parenting, parent-child communication, parental involvement and support, supervision, warmth and affection as positive parenting behaviors.

“Although parental involvement, support and high supervision decrease the chances of children being involved in bullying, for victims overprotection increased this risk,” Wolke noted. “Children need support, but some parents try to buffer their children from all negative experiences. In the process, they prevent their children from learning ways of dealing with bullies and make them more vulnerable.”

Wolke said it may be that could be that children with overprotective parents may not develop qualities such as autonomy and assertion and therefore may be easy targets for bullies. Conversely, it could also be that parents of victims become overprotective of their children.

“In either case, parents cannot sit on the school bench with their children,” he said. “Parenting that includes clear rules about behavior while being supportive and emotionally warm is most likely to prevent victimization.”

The study was published in the journal Child Abuse & Neglect.

Source: University of Warwick

Father with his daughter at the play ground photo by shutterstock.

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Over-protected children ‘more likely to be bullied’
Apr 26th, 2013 by

Source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-22294974

25 April 2013 Last updated at 21:57 ET

Over-protected children ‘more likely to be bullied’

By Hannah Richardson BBC News education reporter

Overbearing mother Parents need to let their children learn to be resilient.

Children who have over-protective parents are more likely to be bullied by their peers, research suggests.

A review of 70 studies looking at 200,000 children suggests parents who “buffer” children from negative experiences make them more vulnerable.

But children who have harsh or negative parents are most likely to be bullied, it finds.

Professor Dieter Wolke said everyone looked at schools, but his study says bullying really starts at home.

The University of Warwick-based psychology professor said he was expecting to find that children with the harshest parents were most likely to become prey to bullies.

But he said he was somewhat surprised to discover that children with over-protective parents were also at an increased risk of bullying.

‘Deal with conflict’He said: “Although parental involvement, support and high supervision decrease the chances of children being involved in bullying, for victims – overprotection increased this risk.

“Children need support but some parents try to buffer their children from all negative experiences. In the process, they prevent their children from learning ways of dealing with bullies and make them more vulnerable.”

He added: “It is as if children need to have some distress so that they know how to deal with conflict. If the parents all the time do it for them then the children don’t have any coping strategies and are more likely targets.”

Bullying was defined as repeated instances over a six-month period, rather than just one-off conflicts in the playground.

He said the research suggested bullies find dominance by targeting the children they find to be the most vulnerable – picking again on the ones who cry or run away after an initial attack.

So the way a child reacts to an initial instance of bullying has repercussions for what the bullies do next. Once they have established who to target they increase their dominance by repeatedly victimising them.

‘Clear rules’The research, which covered a number of countries in Europe and the US, also found that children who were bullied by their siblings were more likely to be victims as well.

Prof Wolke said: “Parenting that includes clear rules about behaviour while being supportive and emotionally warm is most likely to prevent victimisation.

“These parents allow children to have some conflicts with peers to learn how to solve them rather than intervene at the smallest argument.”

Overall he found that 32% of children said they had been bullied over the previous six months. Some 10 to 14% went on to be chronic bullying victims.

The study was published in the journal of Child Abuse and Neglect.

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The Most Beautiful Way To Stop A Bully I’ve Ever Seen
Mar 24th, 2013 by

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Four Things You Probably Don’t Know About Title IX
Feb 9th, 2013 by

Source: http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/02/05/1184785/-Four-Things-You-Probably-Don-t-Know-About-Title-IX#

Title IX is an enormously important law for female athletes — no other law has done more to expand opportunities for women and girls in athletics. But what many people don’t know is that the benefits and protections of Title IX aren’t limited to athletics.

Written by Becka Wall for RH Reality Check. This diary is cross-posted; commenters wishing to engage directly with the author should do so at the original post.

 

Tomorrow, Wednesday, February 6th, is National Girls & Women in Sports Day, which has people singing the praises of Title IX from soccer fields, softball diamonds, tracks, pools and countless other sporting venues — and for good reason! Title IX is an enormously important law for female athletes — no other law has done more to expand opportunities for women and girls in athletics. While there is still work to be done, the progress we have made thanks to Title IX is tremendous.

But what many people don’t know is that the benefits and protections of Title IX aren’t limited to athletics. Here are four other ways Title IX is there for young women (and men, too):

 

1. Equal opportunities in career and technical programs in traditionally male-dominated fields

Title IX requires that girls and boys be given equal opportunities in career and technical education programs, particularly in traditionally male-dominated fields. Getting more women in these fields may be the key to closing the gender wage gap, since predominantly female occupations pay lower wages than predominantly male ones. Women still face barriers and a lack of encouragement in the fields of science, technology, engineering, and math (often referred to as STEM), but Title IX has broadened opportunities for a number of women and girls.

Shree Bose, a student at Harvard University, took science and math courses from a young age, finding her calling and her passion in science. As a result of winning the 2011 Google Science Fair for her important breakthrough for chemotherapy resistance treatment, she was invited to speak at conferences, attend an Ivy League university, and even meet the president! We need more girls like Shree, and Title IX is working to ensure that all girls who have an interest in STEM fields or classes are able to pursue them.

2. Protection for pregnant & parenting students

Title IX requires that pregnant and parenting students have equal access to schools and activities, that all separate programs are completely voluntary, and that schools excuse absences due to pregnancy or childbirth for as long as it is deemed medically necessary. In short: pregnancy should be treated no differently than a temporary medical condition.

Yet many pregnant and parenting students still face discrimination in their schools. Take the story of Lisette Orellana, a straight-A student who had taken all the usual precautions and still got pregnant, and instead of support from her favorite teachers, she now faced discrimination and bullying from not only her fellow students, but also her favorite teachers. Despite the fact that it was a battle to go to school every morning and face those who were actively rooting against her, Orellana graduated with honors. Orellana is a rare success story, however — only about one-half of teen mothers get a high school diploma by age 22,compared with 89 percent of women who do not have a child during their teen years. One-third of teenage mothers never get a G.E.D. or diploma, and less than 2 percent of young teenage mothers attain a college degree by age 30.

Or look at the discrimination faced by Stephanie Stewart, a 27-year-old student at a public university in New York City who was told by a professor (in a class entitled “Roles of Women”) that she would not be allowed to make up tests or assignments resulting from any pregnancy-related absences. When Stewart went to the dean and other administrators to reverse the decision, they told her that professors have the right to set their own rules about absences and make-up work. They declined to intervene on Stewart’s behalf and recommended that she drop the class. The National Women’s Law Center recently filed a case on her behalf against the City University of New York.

3. Protections against sexual harassment and bullying

Sexual harassmentis a form of prohibited sex discrimination in schools under Title IX, and much of what we call “bullying” is actually prohibited harassment.

Forty-eight percent of all elementary school teachers nationwide reported that they have heard students make sexist remarks at their school, and one-third of students have heard kids at school say that girls or boys should not do or wear certain things because of their gender. Fifty-six percent of students who don’t conform to traditional gender norms say that they are bullied at school and 85 percent of LGBT students report being verbally harassed, with 64 percent being verbally harassed because of their gender expression. Title IX protects allstudents — male and female — from harassment and bullying.

Many girls face harassment, bullying, and unresponsive or ineffectual administrators in their schools every day and don’t know that Title IX’s protections apply to them. That’s exactly what happened to Leia Brugger. It wasn’t until her mother Googled “harassment in schools” that she found the tools she needed to wake the school up to their legal responsibilities and force them to take action to make the school a more open and welcoming learning environment  –  and today Leia pitches for the school’s baseball team and is excited about her first year of high school.

4. Protections for survivors of sexual assault or rape

Title IX grants protections for survivors of sexual assault and rape by requiring schools to provide a prompt and equitable resolution of sexual violence complaints, investigate those complaints regardless of whether or not law enforcement is involved, provide alternate housing a comfortable distance from attackers, and provide counseling, medical, and academic support.

In the words of former NWLC intern Dana Bolger, who learned about the full protections of Title IX after being raped her sophomore year of college, “Title IX is not just about sports. It says your college can’t make you leave school because you were raped and feel unsafe. They’re supposed to make sure the campus is not a sexually hostile environment.”

Sadly, many schools aren’t living up to their commitments  –  students found responsibleoften face little to no consequences. If more young women are aware of and demand their rights in these situations, perhaps schools will take their legal obligations a little more seriously.

Title IX was — and still is — a landmark piece of legislation not only for female athletes, but for female and male students of all ages. As a result of Title IX, students can go to school knowing that the law is on their side so that they can have a well-rounded education, get out on the field, pursue the career they wish, continue attending school if they get pregnant, and experience a healthy and safe learning environment.

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